A complete euphoria. I cannot stop smiling, as I write. It’s
the feeling of triumph when your heart knows deep within what it has
experienced is pure ecstasy and freedom. A journey of 146 minutes, where you
are just not a spectator, but really become a part of it. The movie is so
gripping. My love for Kagana can make me a little bias. Saying that I can bet
you will admire her with your soul! Incredible is the word.
It's a light movie with a huge impact-with many lessons to take. Yes, there are lessons in it. Particularly lousy things men
do without knowing the damage. Guys it doesn't require much, but just a little
change in perspective.
1) Guilt trip: Don’t make her feel that she is not perfect. Accept
it. Nor are you. Guys sometimes act as Mr. Perfectionist- as they know it all. Girls
on the other hand try hard to be a perfect daughter, a perfect wife, and a
perfect mother…everything perfect. But the fact of the matter is none can be and
it’s not human at all. Don’t make her feel whatever she does is just not
enough. If this feeling creeps into her, eventually after a prolonged time she
will stop doing anything. Then, don’t be startled.
2) Don’t be her teacher: You are her partner- yeah better half
as they say. But not a teacher. Remember she has her own mind to think and do
things. Yeah in a marriage surely both the people accept each other the way
they are. Two different people take out mid-ways to do a thing. Not two
individuals are same. In all this don’t try to boss her around. You must be a
CEO in office but at home she is the one. J
3) Don’t take her for a ride- Don’t expect her to keep her
stuff at bay and do your stuff first or be free for you. If you expect, then do
the same as well. Reciprocate to her immediately even if you are in a middle of
something. If you cannot, then understand that even she cannot.
4) Don’t question her choices: All her friends and family should
not be your target zone. Like a critique have you been making fun of everyone
in her life? Then, for sure you need to get the basics right. Remember even you
are her choice.
5) Never look down upon her: It’s a usual notion that as a
person grows in life his attitude changes. Some changes for sure are good. But
the problem comes when you start looking upon your partner as a nobody. This
feeling kills a relationship and damages her confidence. When in all your lows
she never left you, then why in the highs you start judging her? Lifestyle or
attitude changes are to grow together in life and not to part ways. Just give
it a thought.
The girl in your life is surely a Queen- your Queen! :) Don't just say it casually but mean it in all literal sense. :) Cherish and nourish your relationship!
To the girl who loves you the most-take care of her. :)
A bientôt! (See you soon!)
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