I am in a philosophical mood today. To observe and analyse is what I love. I have never been a talkative person since childhood (though I’ll agree that few of my one liner’s or punches gives fits of laughter), but yes have always been a great observer. My observation skills do not extend to what one wears, fashion statements (only sticks to your shoes, you all must know if you have read my earlier blog) or the matter of fact the outward look and accessories one wears. The outlook, character and conduct are what I look for, relationships matter to me a lot.
We come alone and go alone. But in this whole journey we are
never alone; we connect, touch and influence people around us. Sometimes get
motivated and sometimes inspire. All kinds of associations form the basis of
our existence.
People change and so do relationships. Okay let me correct, maybe people are the same, but the circumstances change. Sometimes between best of friends
a silence develops, undesirable and unknown. Silence grows so deep that there
is nothing more to share and nourish, it’s like a black hole. Sometimes your
worse enemies at a time become your best buddies. You forget everything in the
past and start enjoying each other’s company. Funny and strange, but that’s how
life plays it well. So in short ‘nothing is consistent’. We are always
undergoing a change, a sea change.
We become so circumstantial. Circumstances make or break the
relationships, empower us. Same people same mindset, but things change between
them, sometimes for good and sometimes for worse. It's a paradigm shift!!
Hold on to what makes you happy today, brings a smile to
you. Today is what matters! Cherish the presence of people who care and love
you today. Forget what makes you unhappy, maybe things will change in the
future, as I said nothing is consistent specially relationships. If it doesn't maybe
it was better off to be the way it is. :)
To quote Jonathan Swift, “There is nothing constant in this
world but inconsistency.”
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